Radical Marriage Author’s Tenth Wedding Anniversary

This week is our tenth wedding anniversary, a significant milestone for us. Being the authors of Radical Marriage it seems a good idea to share where we are now and where we’re headed. In 2008 when we were married it was my third marriage and Darlene’s second. Her kids were grown and out of the […]

Living the Radical Life Together

A truly Radical Marriage requires living a radical life together. How can you live your life to the fullest, with your partner, with the time you have left on this planet? Your Vision It all starts with your Vision. If you can’t see or envision it, you can’t accomplish it. What do you want out […]

Radical Marriage at the Library?

We honestly thought Radical Marriage might be a bit too “radical” for libraries, but not according to the Midwest Book Review – “Strongly recommended and rewarding reading for those who are contemplating getting married, for those already in a committed marriage, and for those whose marriage has failed and are seeking to understand why, Radical […]

Join the Radical Marriage Movement!

Despite its historic and important role in our society, the institution of marriage is facing an existential crisis. As we write this, fewer people are tying the knot, the divorce rate is at an all-time high, and “till death do us part” is becoming a thing of the past. Rather than being associated with the […]

I Promise to Choose You First

With all of the distractions, obligations, and personal pursuits in life, it can seem difficult to prioritize your partner. In fact, some believe it is downright impossible. Huh? How can I possibly choose my partner first? What about my kids? What about my faith? What about my interests? What about ME? In Chapter Two of […]

Test Your Radical Marriage IQ

Just for fun, read the Radical Marriage book and then take this test of your “Radical Marriage IQ.” Enjoy! 1. The word “Radical” in Radical Marriage means: A. Getting kinky in bed B. Having more than one partner, like an open marriage C. Doing away with traditions and customs D. Different from the usual or […]

What You See Depends Upon Where You’re Standing and Where You’re Looking

We humans are social creatures. Relationships come quite naturally to us. So you would think that we would not only be able to make them work, but we would be really good at them. But it’s not so simple. There are seven billion people on this planet. Some of them are easy for you to […]

Quiz: Do You Have a Radical Marriage?

(Excerpted from the book Radical Marriage: Your Relationship as Your Greatest Adventure) Most couples don’t want an ordinary, boring, routine relationship. They want excitement, fun, closeness, love. We need security, but we also need adventure. Radical Marriage is a paradigm for the next evolution of marriage and new territory for committed relationships Do you have […]

Is Marital Happiness an Inside Job?

Characteristic #8: A Radical Marriage has partners who prioritize each other’s happiness. With the release of our new book, Radical Marriage, we recently received an interesting question from a reader who poignantly—and rightly—pointed out that “happiness is an inside job,” and wondered how that reconciles with being committed to her partner’s happiness. First, we must […]

Radical Marriage #1 Best Seller on First Day of Release

We are pleased and excited to share that Radical Marriage climbed to #1 Best Seller status in it’s genre on Amazon in the U.S., U.K. and Australia. Check out this amazing book on Amazon here. Screenshots below!